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Truth Wisdom Freedom - January 2007

Visiting Elvis

January 18th 2007 02:31
A four-year-old recently scaled the fence that had been built to protect him, and wandered away for a mile, until he came to the river. He never went any further. A patrolling helicopter found him there, drowned.

It wasn’t that his parents had not done everything they could. They knew the problems with their autistic son and had the fence especially built, but he climbed over it. A normal four-year-old would not require these protective extremes, but this child had a communication problem, and his relationships were not normal. He was determined on his own path and it destroyed him. Once he separated himself from the wisdom of his parents it was only a matter of time before something went wrong.


He only had to look about him and enjoy the safety and provision of his family home. Everything was there for him and he lacked nothing. Yet another voice spoke to him and he listened to it, and died, and broke his parents’ hearts. Perhaps each would have died in his place if it could give him life, but that was not to be.

We too have a beautiful home, with oceans to sail, mountains to climb, a painted sky each night, and the voice of the builder to comfort and protect, to offer wisdom and truth.

Yet so often we listen to the other voice that says “You are not free here. Go out on your own. You don’t need God to tell you what to do. You can do it your way.”

Elvis Presley listened to that voice. He had everything he needed in God’s house, love, comfort, truth, wisdom, the ability to prosper. But there was another voice, most commandingly, flatteringly seductive, that offered him great fame, riches and wealth in return for his soul.

There was a bargain drawn, a contract written. He had to leave his Father’s (God’s) house, and flout his sexuality to get the money. In order to do that, like any woman in a brothel, he needed a blinder, something to hide the pain of remorse and shame. He took the drugs, although he must have known their deadly power. Of course it all started out wonderfully well. But the rot became established, invincible, and speedily terminal. He died too early.


I wonder, if he had known the real cost, whether he would have left God’s house. If he had read the small print in the contract, and known it would cost him forty years of his life – the better half of his life – would he have scaled the fence of wisdom and ventured out?

What about me? Do I have spiritual autism?
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THE PEOPLE-PLEASING

January 14th 2007 04:34
People Pleasing II

One of the great traps you can fall into these days is the people-pleasing trap. We get brainwashed about what’s cool, what we must wear, who the cool people are to be seen with, what the cool things are to do, where are the cool places to hang out., the coolest bran of sunnies, sneakers, you name it. Trying to keep up with it all is tough on the old pocket and then the fashion changes! Guess who gets the benefit of that!

Well, who dictated all this stuff anyway? Who gets to say what’s cool?

Doing what’s cool is like wearing a uniform anyway. Everybody else is much the same. What happened to individual personality, individual differences and giftings? “Taint cool to be different. Different gets teased and taunted.

Who teases and taunts those who are different? You guessed it. The class bully. It certainly isn’t the person with sensitivity, the friend with understanding, the one who wants to encourage you to show your colours and develop your style..

So you have two extremes – on the one hand addiction to cool (what everybody tells you you must do), on the other hand individual development (the question of “Who is that interesting person I see in the mirror every day?”)

Now, let’s investigate that interesting person. What are the things she loves? What are the things he’s very good at? Where are the places s/he is most happy? Who is there who can help develop this interesting person (mentor him)? What are their ideas. Ah! Surprise, surprise! They are not always “cool”! They have the strength to be different. There is something they believe in that makes them stand out – raises my interest in them What is it in them that attracts me? What have I in common with them? What things are interesting about me? – (There are many things of interest about you so don’t go into denial on this question!) They are the things that make me stand out from the crowd.

Stand out from the crowd? Is that cool?

Oh yes. It’s Oh so cool, because that’s the beginning of the leader coming out in you You’ll be the one who gets to say what is cool for you! And people will then follow you!
Develop yourself as a cool leader, not a cool slave! Dare to be different. Dare to be real. Dare to be truthful. Write down even now any ways in which this article has helped change your thinking.

The Purple People Pleaser – Poem by Helen Murray

Chorus:
It was a one-eared, smooth-tongued, cringing purple people pleaser,
Lop-eared, smooth-tongued, cringing purple people pleaser.
Lop-eared, smooth-tongued, cringing purple people pleaser.
Sure feels dumb to me.

Well, I found that thing pumping deep in my heart.
It had one ear, silk tongue, right from the start.
I commenced a shiverin’ and I said “Oh yuk,”
And cringed at the cringin’ creep a-biting the dust.

Chorus:

He nibbled at my heart-strings and he pulled them tight!
I said, “Mr. Purple People Pleaser, don’t you bite!”
He answered me in a tone too rough,
I’ll bite where I want ‘till I’ve had enough!

Chorus

I said “Mr. Purple People Pleaser go away.
I’m a-callin’ in Jesus and He’s going to stay.
He thinks I’m just lovely and He’s making me strong.
I’m going to please Him. He’ll do me no wrong!

Chorus:

He said “You can’t get rid of me just like that!
I’ve been living here a long time. I’m a clever little rat.
This is my home and I’ve made it nice and muddy.
I’m dug right in, you stupid fuddy-duddy!”

Chorus:

I said “In the Name of Jesus I bind you up!
Go, get lost and vanish ‘cause I’ve had quite enough.
Go, in Jesus’ Name, for He is the First and Last.”
You should have seen him slink away, very, very fast!

Chorus:

I don’t have a purple people pleaser any more.
I watched his tail curl under as he slunk right out the door.
I’m busy pleasin’ Jesus cause he makes my heart strong,
I’m a Jesus-pleasin’ person and I’m going to live long.

Forever, actually!


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How do you do it?

January 11th 2007 06:57
There is wisdom in many counselors says the biblical proverb. Oh, how many big mistakes could be avoided if we learned that. How often we go stumbling, doing what ever feels good at the time.

Emotions are not the greatest indicators of what is going to work! ‘If it feels good do it”, they say. What a trap that is! How many things can you think of that that one statement might lead to? Single motherhood? Financial disaster? Loss of a friend? Breakup of a marriage and tragedy for some children? A career thrown away? Psychosis? And a million others.

Be very suspicious when you hear that hedonistic statement. It is at best irresponsible and at worst deadly. Human beings being as they are – less than perfect- feelings are things of the moment only and can be deeply regretted later.

There is a force at work called entropy. It reduces things down to the simplest essentials if there is no energy there to maintain them. For example if you leave a car out in the rain it will rust and deteriorate until finally it is nothing but a heap on the ground.

As in the physical, so in the psychological and spiritual (not necessarily the same). Nothing gets built and maintained without a plan. The best plans are made using the advice of various experts in their fields. So, in every area of life seek expert advice, be it planning a family, a new house, a career, a business venture, health. We never have all the know-how on our own. We never get it right in the instant we first thought of it.

Let the young people find mentors among the older generation – there is so much to learn and you don’t have to re-invent the wheel. Even if your parents aren’t able to help you, you can find those in the community who will. Then listen to them. They can save you so much heart-ache. If you find a good church, (not just any church) you’ll discover it’s like having a family, and there’s plenty of good counsel there. Take it.

Be strong enough to go against the peer-pressure thing because if you are not, it will break you. You have to be your own person. You have to take responsibility for the results of your actions. You are the designer of your own life and there will be no-one else to blame for your wrong choices.

But under good advice you can conquer the world. You can achieve those dreams you had. You can arrive at eighty with few regrets. You can’t do it alone, but you can do it. How would that be?
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Get it Happening!

January 6th 2007 13:11
Get it happening!

Look ahead! Look forward for a moment! What are the three big things you want happening in your life? Write down the three most important things for your life.

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Rose-coloured Glasses

January 2nd 2007 10:42
The clause “looking at life through rose-coloured glasses” has a wealth of meaning. When we fall in lust with someone and think “This is it” we are exemplifying that clause. A friend of mine recently did that. This man was wonderful – “so handsome, such a great business man, so much fun, and keen on me too.” All those characteristics and unmarried at 35? Some questions arose in my mind. I had a feeling there was a lot of playboy hiding there. So it turned out. First he was jealous and demanding to know the whereabouts of my friend every moment. Then he was accusing her of infidelities (one month into the relationship!) It’s amazing, when people point the finger like that, they have three fingers pointing back at them! He certainly didn’t trust her, and yes, you guessed it, he was also checking out some other chick. He was assessing her by his own behavioural standards!

Fortunately my friend saw the writing on the wall and checked right out immediately. Off came the rose-coloured glasses and she saw reality, and ran for her life.

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